We form our identity by what happens to us. That is not what God says about us. We are princes and princesses in God’s Kingdom.
We declare our Royal Identity according to what God tells us, in:
Psa 107:20 ‘He sent His word and healed them And delivered them from their destructions.’ NKJV
Thank you, Father God, You sent Jesus, Your Word, and we are healed and saved! (see John 1:1 and Isaiah 55:11)