We form our identity by what happens to us. That is not what God says about us. We are princes and princesses in God’s Kingdom.
We declare our Royal Identity according to what God tells us, in:
Psa 100:3 ‘Know that the LORD, He is God; It is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; We are His people and the sheep of His pasture.’ NKJV
Father God, You created me, I am Your child!