We form our identity by what happens to us. That is not what God says about us. We are princes and princesses in God’s Kingdom.
We declare our Royal Identity according to what God tells us, in:
Psa 139:14-18
Father God, You planned and created me, knew me before I was a thought to my parents and recorded every day of my life in Your book before a single day was created. Thank You for Your love and faithfulness.